I mostly just meant how people will get this idea, for example, that minho is mean or cold or whatever and i’ll see that on sfw as well, or it will start as a sfw thing and then come on to rpf, and it’s just an ugly cycle of things going back and forth. I’ve seen this a lot with members being infantilized as well (not using an example bcs i’ve probably seen it for all of them). And I’m also talking about how people will take real moments of the members and twist them so it’s like “oh he’s doing this and this because of this” and I understand that this is a fictional space, but sometimes that line gets blurred if that makes sense? Because there is no true divide between sfw and nsfw and rpf, there are accounts that occupy all spaces, so things never stay purely in one of them.

my tweet really wasn’t serious at all, and I was making the same point that so many people are yelling at me for supposedly perpetuating 😭 I was just saying idc and that I don’t think other people should either. I think I could have worded that phrase differently, but the bottom line is idc, and I don’t think that sex positions are personality traits, so to say “oh this person can’t do this and this person can’t do this because of x, y, and z” is silly to me. Of course people can have preferences, and the only issue i’ve had, and have repeatedly stated, is when someone acts like their preference is “correct” and gets mad when other people don’t agree, to which I say: who cares, let’s just have fun and enjoy what we enjoy. I hope this answers your question? And again, I think I could have just phrased that better initially.

I don’t like any of those things either, I actually dislike them strongly, but I don’t understand how that factors into this anyhow. If you look at any thing I’ve ever said about any of this (which really isn’t much) you will see that my position has only ever been that I like it when people write minsung as multifaceted human beings, and that I think it’s silly to consider one portrayal the “correct one,” and get mad when people don’t agree. And that’s all I said this time too. And I think my minsung reflects that, or at least, that’s what I work towards.

I actually care significantly more about everything you said in the first half of this message than I do about fucking omegaverse dynamics. I don’t even really TALK about the omegaverse or even read it or like it that much lmao. And I don’t care what people do with it bcs it isn’t real, there are no rules, you can make anyone whatever you want and it doesn’t affect me in any way. And the same goes for top/bottom I literally do not care, and think it’s silly when people do, which is once again, all i’ve said.

I don’t know how you got any of this out of me essentially saying people shouldn’t get upset about what dick goes in what hole but okay. Preferences are fine! Getting mad about them is less fine! That’s all I said, and I don’t know how many more ways I can say that.

Hi! I appreciate this so much! It feels really good to have an actual conversation and not just get yelled at lol.

I appreciate the apology, and I hope you can see where i’m coming from that it felt a little unfair to me for people to tell me I can’t complain because … people have the right to complain? idk lol, and again thank you!

I understand that we’re all seeing different things, and so we’re often missing context, so no worries about anything :) I’m sure that there were a lot of really nice and normal posts and interactions that I was not seeing, but alas … the algorithm was not on my side this time.

Thank you again for being so nice 🩷 and I hope you have a good day too!

Hi anon, I’m less referring to the initial post and more referring to the influx of people that came with it that started complaining and saying their preference was inherently better because it was “more correct.” I don’t have issue with people’s preferences because when it comes to strictly top/bottom, I don’t have one! I really do not care and will write them or read them both ways all the time which is why I ended that tweet with a lighthearted cheer for vers mnsng lol. I just got irritated by the amount of people complaining about seeing content instead of, as you said, scrolling past it or blocking people, and even more so by people talking like their opinion was the gospel. I hope this makes sense. I’m just really sick of the top/bottom discourse in general and how it bleeds into how people treat the members irl.

So I don’t think anyone overreacted, and I especially don’t think I did by posting my singular tweet that took me 20 seconds to write. I just think it’s strange that people were making such a big deal over something (again, not the initial post, but the response of people freaking out that came with it. Which might not have been something you say with the algorithm, but is something I definitely saw) and acting like they were being victimized for not seeing as much top minho or for liking bottom jisung when it’s the largely more popular preference lol. But if the other way around ever happens then …. all hell breaks loose.

But yes at the end of the day I can summarize my opinion with: whoooooo caressss. And I have every much as a right to complain about people complaining as they do to complain, which I’ve had several people come at me for doing so. I was also just stating my opinion and take on the whole thing, so I don’t see why that would be seen as overreacting or wrong, but it’s fine for others do so when it’s in regards to their personal preferences.

So, yeah. Like I truly don’t care about any of this at the core of it but I DO care when people are so aggressive with their top/bottom pref that they act like anyone else is wrong or bad. I hope this makes sense? I think its hard to explain when we were obviously seeing different things.