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Delyth · 12 answers · 8mo

If you fall in love, what makes you fall in love with that person?

I'd like to think it might be.. vary from one person to another, considering I can't quite find the real pattern but maybe how they carry themselves as an individual? How they speak and their choice of words as well as how they try to connect with me and not just talk to impress but really.. communicate, how they behave, their personalities, and their looks (I won't be a hypocrite to admit that their appearance matters to me), how they treat others around them, their friends.

For me, a connection. I don't know what exactly I would want in a partner, but I know a connection when I feel it. One where the conversation flows naturally, and I feel at ease. It's easy being with that person, and we enjoy each other's company.

smart, she was able to teach me the meaning of life and that is definitely cool.

idk cause I fall so easily 🫠 maybe in general I would fall from the way he treats me and how he builds a warmth conversation and two-ways for sure.

His vibrant personality, the warmth in his conversations with me, the kindness he shows to those around him– particularly to me, his infectious sense of humor that lights up any room, the intriguing possibility of shared interests that would captivate my attention, and above all: the depth and clarity of his mindset.

I don’t think I have one single answer for this. Love in each story has different complexities; each curated so uniquely, it is impossible to like one person the same way you like another. But if I have to pick one element, then I believe it is willingness to compromise. I’d give my all to a relationship I see fit and worthy. If it is not reciprocated, it would hurt in a long term. And I don’t wish to sabotage myself, I’ve had enough on my plate.

When I fall in love, it's usually a combination of factors. Their personality plays a huge role—kindness, intelligence, a good sense of humor. Shared values and interests are important too. I'm drawn to people who are genuine and have a strong sense of integrity.

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