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If you fall in love, what makes you fall in love with that person?
I'd like to think it might be.. vary from one person to another, considering I can't quite find the real pattern but maybe how they carry themselves as an individual? How they speak and their choice of words as well as how they try to connect with me and not just talk to impress but really.. communicate, how they behave, their personalities, and their looks (I won't be a hypocrite to admit that their appearance matters to me), how they treat others around them, their friends.
Their personal values always come first.
Personality. Personality. Personality. Intellectual. ♥︎
His vibrant personality, the warmth in his conversations with me, the kindness he shows to those around him– particularly to me, his infectious sense of humor that lights up any room, the intriguing possibility of shared interests that would captivate my attention, and above all: the depth and clarity of his mindset.
I don’t think I have one single answer for this. Love in each story has different complexities; each curated so uniquely, it is impossible to like one person the same way you like another. But if I have to pick one element, then I believe it is willingness to compromise. I’d give my all to a relationship I see fit and worthy. If it is not reciprocated, it would hurt in a long term. And I don’t wish to sabotage myself, I’ve had enough on my plate.
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