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Ashie. · 2mo
what's your best cook/bake this year? :3
Papaya · 12d
Marschatje, where’s your baby bison?
Milo · 6 answers · 17d
helloo... it's milo (aslovewails), I've lost access to my previous handle which is @aslovewails and finally last week I've made a new one... just in case anyone fancy a follow from my account, you may kindly answer this message of mine your @ and I'll give you a follow from there :D thanj you... (it's my personal account anyways as I'm no longer will be active on cyber)
Papaya · 1mo
Bon après-midi, ma jolie demoiselle. Currently I've been having trouble such as missing some sleep, some meals too, spacing out, and some other things and turned out I've been diagnosed with this disease called "Missing miss Schatje a little too badly". And I believe that a kiss on the cheek, maybe a hug is fine, may make this disease a little bit better. Will you?
Papaya · 1mo
Bon nuit, ma jolie demoiselle. Tonight I have a little poem for you, Milady. Rose is red, violet are blue. Thinking I might be died, if I didn't get the kiss from you.
Papaya · 1mo
youre a type who only interact with your closest ones? cz weve never had a long convo though i wanna be close with you but sorry if im wrong
Darling, if you want to get close to someone, whoever it is, please try to be mindful of your words.
I don't feel entitled to explain myself, but I want to be clear. It took me months to year(s) to get comfortable talking casually with “my friends”. I have a lot going on in my life, and I am working on trusting people. I don’t owe everyone anything. If you really want to be my friend, you could ask me about my hobbies.
Anyway, I accept your apology, sweetheart.
Papaya · 2mo
If you could relive one day from your life exactly as it was, which day would it be and why?
Andromeda · 11 answers · 3mo
What is your most favorite romance trope, and why do you like it?
Papaya · 1mo
Bon après-midi, ma jolie demoiselle. I don't know if you believe such a thing, but there's not a day, nor a time, where I didn't think about you at all. You've been inside in my head even when it was all a mess. My dear, I can't say much today but just so you know, I'm looking at the sky and it reminds me of you. Have a great day.
Papaya · 2mo
what's your thoughts on a partner who steals our personality? disclaimer: before anyone calls me a narcissist, i used to take that fact very positively. i once thought that they only want to appreciate me by loving the things i love, until it feels wrong. they started became me. talk like me, do things that i did, repeating the same topic that i only told them to other people—basically mirroring all my acts and interests. i cannot lie, i'm no longer comfortable.
I think there's a difference between adopting someone's habits or preferences and outright copying them. I am totally okay with my partner becoming interested in what I like and even taking on some of my habits. In fact, I find it endearing. But I would find it strange if my partner suddenly started acting exactly like me plus if they’re still doing it after the relationship ended.
To be honest, I don't mind if someone repeats the same topic, especially if they're talking about their partner. Like, "My partner likes this, is interested in that, blah blah blah." But if they're truly trying to mimic their partner that would be a bit odd. It would make me uncomfortable because I wouldn't know if it's genuine interest or something else…?