In your opinion, does oral sex count as sex? (apparently this is a divisive topic)
Yeah. I personally wouldn't say that it's really divisive, either. It is a thing, but it's an attitude that's really just common in a usually poorly sexually educated but also willfully ignorant subset of cishet people. So if you're in a room of entirely cishet people and a couple of 'em are at least that type, it'll seem divisive, but in the wider world I think it's pretty unifying.
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