Sean ⚡🤖 · 12 answers · 4y

You are happily committed to a long-term partner, but one day you discover they have a porn stash they have hidden from you - content you find appalling (not illegal) How would you react?

Porn is pretty much entirely for cis people so it all appalls me. Internally, it would hurt me a lil that no one will watch all 600+ episodes of Naruto with me, but they have time to watch literally dozens of videos of people getting their hair shampooed with bugs, but in like, a sex way?? gREAT, so I guess you don't even care about the Waves Mission? What about the gay subtext that Redditors deny is there? You just don't care? But you care about what, stepmom titties? That's outrageous. What else haven't you told me about your feelings? Do you 'relate' to Holden Caulfield? WOW, BIG SURPRISE THERE. But OKAY, I've accepted it and I'm over it now.

Every time I've accidentally uncovered someone's porn I've been very discreet about it. I gtfo instead of further investigating it tho. If someone wants me to know something about their sexuality, something that's important, then I trust them to tell me. If they don't want me to know, then I'm not going to force them to tell me. I'm pretty confident that I don't give off extremely judgmental-disown-a-bitch vibes. So I wouldn't worry too much about there being some kind of issue where I've caused someone to feel like they can't tell me something they absolutely could if they wanted to. I would figure they just like porn secrets. But I would probably ask them again where they stand on watching 600+ Naruto episodes. But tbh I'm going to do that with or without the pornography discovery.

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