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daniel · 17 answers · 6mo

selain takut menyesal, apa yg bikin kalian engga gampang cut off seseorang?

Gatau beneran, aku termasuk gampang cut off orang tapi kayaknya karena aku problemnya.

Besides the fear of regret, what makes it hard to cut someone off is often the emotional attachment and shared history. When you've invested time and emotions into a relationship, whether it's a friendship or something more, it's challenging to let go. There's also the hope that things might improve or that the person will change. Additionally, there might be feelings of guilt or responsibility, especially if you care deeply about the person and don't want to hurt them. All these factors can make the decision to cut someone off much more difficult.

Gasuka hidup ga tenang harus jaga jarak sama orang, gua pengen hidup anteng walau susah.

gak bisa dapat relasi? aku sering mikir beberapa kali tiap mau cut off orang karena siapa tau di masa yang akan mendatang aku bakal butuh mereka. tapi dari aku sendiri bakal tetap cut off orang yang benar benar bikin pengaruh di kehidupanku, sih. :o

ngerasa sayang aja sama kenangan baik yang pernah dilaluin. gw jarang cut off orang, karna menurut gw selagi masih kenal, berarti gw masih bisa pertahanin hubungan pertemanannya sampe kapan pun. walaupun mereka pernah jahat atau sikapnya udah parah, gw bakal tetep kasih kesempatan buat mereka, biasanya gw bakal coba dulu perbaiki hubungan itu biar gak pupus gitu aja. kedengeran naif ya? kayaknya gw cuma kesulitan buat bilang kata pisah.

Pertimbangan sebelum cut off sih, karena kadang ga tahu apa alasan dibalik tindakan dia yang bikin aku pribadi mau cut off dia.

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