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Anon Friend · 4mo
i found wba somewhere around two years ago and i’ve been keeping up with it ever since. i love the way you write characters super fleshed out and the emotional depth in all your fics, wba definitely has a special place in my heart though. it’s the fic that made me want to start writing again which led me to posting fics of my own for the first time. i just wanted to say thank you for continuing to share your writing with us :) wba brings me a lot of comfort and it always makes my day when i see it’s been updated (also it’s one of the few fics i find myself scrolling through to reread the fluffy scenes. the intimacy is just 🥹)
i hope you’re doing well <3
thank you so much for telling me this 💙 this really made my day and brought me a lot of confidence that was wavering until now 💙 im really grateful..!! i'm so happy that you've been reading it and liking it for so long now and that it can bring you a lot of comfort and it even inspired you to start writing too!!💙 wba is a really important fic for me as a writer and hearing that it brings someone comfort and even inspiration is just really really uplifting. thank you so much again for telling me 💙 i'm so happy that you like wba and I hope that itll continue to be so in the future chapters! i hope you continue to write and have a lot of fun with it too 🥺
Anon Friend · 4mo
i loved that snippet you just posted!!!! you are so creative
Anon Friend · 5mo
hi, hope you’re doing ok 💖
Anon Friend · 7mo
hi say just wanted to stop by to say i hope you’re doing well~
Anon Friend · 8mo
i’ve never read foot stuff before but i really love your writing style so i read your most recent fic anyway and just wanted to say i loved it!! hyvn all embarrassed and ashamed meanwhile mnho being like ‘this is the hottest thing i’ve ever seen’ was so adorable 😭 ty for writing <3
Anon Friend · 9mo
hii, I don’t know how often you check this but I was wondering if you ever thought about writing a fic of hyuni in jail?
hello! to be honest I've never considered this. I have a fic rn of something with a jail-like concept, hyunjin being arrested/jailed, which is 'district one', but its definitely not the same. I think I'd want to do research on how the prison system really works before making a concept like it but I think it would be smth I would write if I had a story in mind for it 💙
Anon Friend · 12mo
hiii!! you don’t have to answer if it’s uncomfortable but did you delete your twitter account? I love your writing and U was looking for some of your old post that had snippets of fic ideas (like the one where hj was a prude and chnbng gets revenge by tattooing something on his face) and I couldn’t find it 🥺 just wondering!
hello! I did end up deleting my more social twitter acct say_im_gone, which is the one that had that snippet and a few other brainworms :( but I still have twitter for mainly writing updates/WIP posts with the same handle as my ao3, say_im_good 💙 As for that snippet, I was actually just thinking of it again yesterday and have wanted to write it as a fic when there's downtime, so itll very hopefully be back in that way 🥺
Anon Friend · 1y
sometimes I wonder if I'll ever be able to talk to people as myself, without constantly worrying about how I'm perceived. it feels really silly, but I think I just wish people liked me as much as I like them. I find people so interesting and I have so much love for them, but I find that it's hard for people to like me unless I'm offering them something. I wish that one day I could find a group of friends that understands me, but it's hard most of the time. I get afraid to leave my house and it's almost impossible for me to actually talk to people. I still have hope though. at least there are places like this and people like you who I feel like might understand a little bit.
I'm really late in replying, I lost track of things..! but this is a really understandable and valid and painfully important wish. i'm really sorry that you've been in enough circumstances of feeling loved only conditionally that it feels as if unconditional love isnt obtainable. it can really feel that way, and when that anxiety or heaviness builds up it becomes hard to open up to people, even when you really want to get to know them, because the harsh feelings have become so familiar. but a big thing is that... aa how do i phrase it..? for me, the most comfort i can give myself sometimes is saying 'im not different from other people.' and this isnt to say 'im boring' or ununique!! bot at all. but its to say that the love other people share is just as available to you, a person who's loveable. you seem like a caring person even from just this message, so i think once the right people who share the same interest and compassion do fit into place youre likely to have close and comfortable relationships! its hard, especially when that anxiety has already sunken in. its hard to open up to people who'd like to get to know you when its hard to open up to anyone. hold to your hope, its really important 💙 the most meaningful relationships in my life were made through consistently reassuring myself 'i need to give them the chance to love me'. finding people in familiar mindsets or familiar interests (like fics or skz for example ^^) helps so much with nerves imo!! i made my very closest friends on twitter in this way. i hope so much that you find the love and care that you want to share. its really hard, especially with a sort of reserved society lately..? but please stay hopeful! self reassurance is important in this sense imo, please remember that you're important and worthy of love and worth loving. the fear is really hard to push through, but i support you so much. i think of all things that helped me make friends through ny life until now, the most was being diligent and open even when i was really weary from a similar familiarity with feeling like the love and interest wasnt reciprocated. im sorry for the late reply and the tangent and such. im not too good with advice but i hope so much that this works out for you. you deserve to be cared about just as much as you care about others, and there are lots of loving people out there! i hope you find your people and get to feel and show comfort and love in that way really soon 💙
des · 1y
Its’s not so much a question, but from what I have learned sometimes metal health gets the best of us. I hope you’re doing alright!! Just know that even in the dark times, times when you can’t necessarily see it, there will be and is light on its way to shine through. Sometimes it’s easy to get lost and not be able to see it, so I genuinely hope you are able to soon, I wish you the best health in all. You seem like such a sweet person, you’re an amazing writer, and a sweet friend. We’re all so lucky to be able to experience your writing journey with you. I hope you are doing well, make sure to eat and drink something. Wishing you all the best.🤍
thank you so much for sending this, even for considering to send it. ive been in a low mental state, but reading this makes me feel really reassured, thank you so so much. ive been telling myself to think and see positively, so reading this is a sort of extra motivation in that way, which is really nice. thank you so much for thinking of me and of this and sending this. today's been heavy mentally and reading this makes me feel so reassured 💙
Anon Friend · 1y
🩷 ahhh what do you think of the new album! do you have a favorite song?
Anon Friend · 1y
🩷 how have you been doing recently?
Anon Friend · 1y
hello!! 🩷 no need to reply to this but i hope u have / are having a wonderful day !
Anon Friend · 1y
hi! Sorry in advance if I make you uncomfortable. It's just that I could feel how sincere you were from what you wrote about supporting palestine and since you said you don't know what to do I wanted to share some tips with you that you can use or ignore. No pressure. It's already very good that you did your research and was willing to speak up, sincerely thank you. There's this arab.org, you can click the link once daily and they donate to recognized charity (It's possible because of the ads). The site is safe so no worries. I think the best thing we can do now, according to the people of Gaza and what we've been saying, is share their stories. It's very important to raise awareness by reposting, posting, signing petitions, emailing representatives, maybe even joining protests. You can do that with the people in your environment, on your social media accounts (not necessarily the writing one if you're not comfy). Also please keep reading! (Books, articles, twt threads,..) make sure to protect yourself from propaganda as well! As of now donations aren't useful as the borders to Gaza are closed but when they open in the future, you can donate to @ThePCRF, the red crescent, MAP (UK based), Palestinian medical relief. A BIG ONE IS BOYCOTTING, it has been proven that it works. Starbucks and Macdonalds's stocks have gone down and in turn they're trying to win back clients by all sort of deals like free drinks. The BDS movement has shared the companies that are the biggest target (including Disney+, Starbucks, Macdonald, Puma, HP,...)
I'm sorry if this was overwhelming, I just wanted to make it easier for you in case you need this information. Please feel free to reach out in case you have questions (@livingsahassle) And again, thank you for speaking up!! I read that you're sick, i hope you're feeling a bit better, and i wish you a fast recovery!
Hello, I promise that this isn't uncomfortable! I'm really grateful to you for reaching out..! I'll look at the website and donate what I can if it can do anything as of now, and I'll save it regardless so that if donations aren't beneficial now I can come back to check on it again. I always get worried about donation sites and what they source back to (a lot of places I donated to in the past ended up using the donations for political investment or funding their own benefits), so I'm really glad to know of one now that can be reliable. Thank you so much for telling me about it. It's really, really scary how easy it's become to not realize how horrible something like this is from a distance and I think a lot of people can say 'I choose this side' over some statements without truly comprehending that these are people with dreams and lives they've made and friends and families and hobbies and years and years of memories just like every other person in the world. It's crushing. and it's really miserable too that the fact that the people being killed and trapped in this are so commonly just shown as statistics by now. the sheer number of people who have been harmed by this is so incomprehensible that media and political statements can make it seem so vague by putting just a number down and comparing it to whatever statement benefits them. It seems like they intentionally suppress anything that would invoke innate human empathy to not cause an uproar that would negatively affect themselves. I usually hate seeing the world in a good vs bad, right vs wrong, because everything is so, so grey in between black and white. but this is really evil. its so incomprehensibly cruel. sorry for the tangent its just. idk. but..! I did find the boycotting list and I saved and read over it a few times to stick to it, thank you for writing this as well. I looked into each company to understand why too, since I think 'why' is so important of a question when truly understanding why something is just/unjust, and I especially don't want to support them now that I know what they intentionaly contribute to the support of palestinian suppression. I think a big thing I've considered while thinking about this the past hours is that understanding the reality and comprehending it for how serious it is is really, really important, and I'm really grateful to you for reaching out to me kindly and going through the time and effort to give this information. You're really kind and I'll keep attentive to stay up to date and support in any way I can. Thank you so much
(also thank you..! it's just sickness so its okay, but i have a fever rn and my thoughts feel kind of blurry rn so idk if my words are making sense, but hopefully they do. sorry again for the tangents but tldr in this response is thank you so much and i'll take this advice wholeheartedly)
Anon Friend · 1y
hi 🩷 idk if you'll see this, but i think you're lovely ! u seem like a really sweet person. i'd love to talk w u but i know how stressful it is to chat/reply to people so i'm just sending lots of good vibes instead. hope u have a wonderful day !
Anon Friend · 1y
It might start raining soonn😭 Wishes come true when u make them under the rain, give me a wish you want me to deliver, I'll take it there <3