aduh, yang pertama pasti bakal.. bingung. i would ask them apa yang sebenernya mereka mau walaupun kadang didn't end up well. tapi ya.. kadang pun tetep aku biarin aja. aku ikutin apa maunya tapi semisal they keep giving me mixed signals for too long, i'll leave. capek kalo di situasi gitu terus. if you happen to experience that, semangat ya ian! hope things turns out good for you. {fingers crossed}