Ugh- i'm sorry to hear that, but I'll cut them off. Like, if they make me questioning myself then it means they don't want me.

If they ever make you confused, leave.

Gak tau, aku udah capek sama ekspetasi

send the signals back. kirim mixed signals juga 😁😁

sama tapi aku tipe yang gak put a lot of expectations

Gak tau ya. Lupa rasanya digituin.

Confront them and ask them why would they do this to me

aduh, yang pertama pasti bakal.. bingung. i would ask them apa yang sebenernya mereka mau walaupun kadang didn't end up well. tapi ya.. kadang pun tetep aku biarin aja. aku ikutin apa maunya tapi semisal they keep giving me mixed signals for too long, i'll leave. capek kalo di situasi gitu terus. if you happen to experience that, semangat ya ian! hope things turns out good for you. {fingers crossed}

kalo ditarik ulur akunya pasti bingung sih, what about straightly ask them sebenernya maunya gimana 😥 (I'm not sure if this works)

kasih mixed signal balik biar dia juga bingung. kita berdua bingung. nanti gak bingung kalo udah di surga

Hm, gimana ya. Biasanya saya kalau dikasih mixed signal yaudah ikutin aja apa maunya dia. Kalau dia tiba-tiba banyak omong ya ikutan banyak omong, kalau dia tiba-tiba ghosting yaudah ghosting balik, lol. Kalau ngasih mixed signal-nya berkepanjangan saya mundur.