Not at all, don't even look at me

Zero.

it's nice when I happen to be very important to someone but it's not something I actively seek out

Depends on who the someone is

not very, I'd probably be unnerved by being a little too high priority to somebody

Not important at all

There are always other things or people higher ranking than me, but I can expect some respect if we are on good terms or when we have a friendship or relationship. I would not want to play second fiddle to any sort of games or play you do for entertainment, or to any random person totally unrelated.