I cooked a whole homemade meal for him— something he requested and then he said he wasn’t hungry. Guy was emotionally messy and wanted drama. I didn’t give it to him. That was the end of that. Now that I think about it I wonder it was some sort of weird kink…

Helping to climb a mountain ridge in the Alps and staying with her all the time.

even before I developed my 'never chase' worldview, I never really went that far - my ideal girl is on the modest side and maybe even embarrassed by such gestures

Nothing.

Nothing, I've done stuff for partners that I shouldn't let them do but never someone who wasn't my partner