There is no such thing. Everyone has at least one red flag. You may not see it right away, but they/it’s there.

hard to say, I don't really operate on much of a checklist or anything, for me there's just no substitute for getting in a room with her and talking and let the magic happen (hopefully)

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What Kate said.

Body and soul. That sounds basic but actually is demanding a lot I fear.

Money.