I’m wheat colored. I have no issues with it now but growing up my porcelain white skinned cousin get admired and praised by my grandma so much for her perfect complexion that I started to get a complex. I remember playing one summer with my cousin and she put her hand in the water and it looked so white. I put mine down next to her and mine looked so ugly (to me). So I flipped my hand over to have my palm face up… and I was still darker than her. It made me sad.