Dingus · 4 answers · 3y

What insecurities would you like to be able to get over?

Having large boobs (I'm seriously not bragging). Growing up it's the one thing people would focus on both guy and girls. (Girls would say I was blessed/lucky and how they wished they had my size. Jokes that I was a matador or would poke someone's eye out.) Anytime I wore something that sensuated them I'd worry about getting the wrong attention. I was once groped by a gay guy. He wanted to feel "if they were real". Smh. I want to be able to wear what I want without worrying that someone will try to caress or squeeze. To this day, it's rare I not wear a hoodie or sweater to hide somehow.

You know what, I don't think I have insecurities anymore. I have anxieties but when they are appropriate for the most part too.

I would like to be in principle able to approach a person of interest and ask for a kiss. Not that I would do that, but I would love the sassy confidence. Like in the song text:" I've noticed you around, would you, would you go to bed with me?" I've been asked something very similar and in a charming way just once but denied. Nevertheless I never had that what it takes to be so straight forward.

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