Remembering the people you’re talking to and listening to them or giving them a chance to talk too. Not making every conversation a “me” show. Being interesting i guess.

Listening, inquisitive nature, good sense of humour and has interests and experiences that can create depth to conversation.

Not me

A broad knowledge about everything and a a friendly stance while talking to others?

Good story telling skills

Irl I guess character and good looks, you can talk garbage and still get an audience ( see Biden speech), online you just gonna be brave or go to mommy.