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AiL · 4 answers · 1y

between falling in love and falling out of love, which do you think is scarier and why?

falling out of love… i have been there before and i don’t even want to share the story. too painful 😔

for me, falling out of love is way scarier than falling in love. I mean, one day you are madly in love with them, and share a happy moment together sounds very beautiful. but to think that, on a next day you lost all your feelings for them, and wouldn’t be able to share any kind of moment with them anymore, sounds terrifying.

Of course falling out love because nothing can goes wrong when I'm falling in love. Even if something goes wrong, it's on me dan gak merugikan pihak lain gitu. 🥲

falling out of love is terrifying. how something you were so sure about can one day become a question mark instead of a period. it's cruel, it doesn't make any sense. but life doesn't make sense. and sometimes love doesn't either.

falling in love is nothing compared to that. sure, you get cold feet. you are afraid to get hurt, but you don't really think about hurting the other person. suddenly, you'd rather be alone than be with them. one day, they are your sun and your galaxy and your universe. and the next day, you don't know what they are to you.

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