Sean ⚡🤖 · 10 answers · 3y
Hey I have a wedding question - A couple split the planning of their wedding between them...the bride only had one hard request - that the groom not rub her face in the cake. At the wedding the groom grabbed her by the back of the head and buried her head in the cake (this was planned, the cake was destroyed and the groom had backup cupcakes ready) the bride wants to divorce or annul the marriage now, thoughts?
First of all, and most importantly, the guy is a total fucking dick. How can you disrespect your bride like that? She seems to have made pretty clear that she doesn’t want that specific thing to happen to her (understandably) and he just fucking ignored it to do it anyway, and this cake rubbing shit ist not even funny in the first place.
Does it warrant a divorce? I’m not sure, I think that depends on contextual factors. I think there is a reason for her to explicitly set this hard boundary, because she knows he would do shit to her and now he demonstrated that you can’t trust him even if you make your wishes clear. But why even proceed to marry him if you have this kind of suspicion? If a cake rubbing incidence leads to a divorce you maybe shouldn’t have married at all. But I’m just speculating here.
Tl;dr: he is definitely a stupid asshole; she might be overreacting, we don’t know
