it's not really 'too nice' so much as it is 'nice at the cost of one's dignity and/or respect from others' , just don't be a chump and it'll be fine, and the girls that get 'the ick' from 'too nice' guys, leave them TF alone and they will get to their posting 'where have all the good men gone??? 😭😭' video phase (pssst they have been ignoring them because ick or whatever)