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Pandy · 7 answers · 3mo

Can a man be 'too nice'? If so, what are some things that would, in your eyes, make them 'too nice'?

I think the only time I’ve heard the term was from men who have felt owed the affection and attention of a woman for being so called “nice.” No, I don’t think so. Not at all. the issue is never “nice” alone.

Yes, of course. If a man is too nice then he's a pushover and tolerates shit from others.

it's not really 'too nice' so much as it is 'nice at the cost of one's dignity and/or respect from others' , just don't be a chump and it'll be fine, and the girls that get 'the ick' from 'too nice' guys, leave them TF alone and they will get to their posting 'where have all the good men gone??? 😭😭' video phase (pssst they have been ignoring them because ick or whatever)

'too nice' in my book only refers to people acting out creepy and cringe and suspicious behaviour and generally means a sort of falsehood and deception.

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