Im not sure which would be the healthiest for me. I think catheters can also cause things like uti s? Can I wear a diaper? I’d prefer that. I think.

I'm gonna take the pissbaby's word for it-- gimme #1

The former seems less painful.

The latter. The mum of my girlfriend does it since twenty years.

i would kill myself

https://tenor.com/view/why-not-both-why-not-take-both-gif-11478682

That's an easy one, I still have hospital nightmares about catheters - I'm buying some diapers and getting on with my life like the little pissbaby I am 😛