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Wasserpistole · 8 answers · 6y

If you are not a truly wonderful person, an angel, please don't have kids! / Could you agree on that?

Nah,everyone makes mistakes and you don't have to be 100% perfect in order to get kids.

No. Parenting can very much change you.

Its more a case of if you cannot afford to have children, then you really shouldn't.

I was well programmed not to by my family. It wouldn't have been fair on a child anyway with my low energy. I'd have needed a great partner. Which I had but we still took precautions. It is still a huge loss for me though. I worked with kids instead but I've lost that too now.

I don't believe you need to be some wonderful perfect person in order to be a good/effective parent, just committed to the best interests of the child

In a twisted way, sure... but more because because we really need to reduce the global populous... and chavs are dicks :P

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