Alice 💋 · 8 answers · 3y

STD's aside, is/should your ex or SO's sexual history be any of your concern?

If you're curious, yes, just because SOs are generally open to each other about each other, so them refusing to answer questions about their sexual history would be rude and cold and being so secretive might put a damper on the relationship.

no. As long as we never speak of it. I have a don't ask don't tell policy. Its more peaceful that way

I think knowing your SO's partner history in general is helpful for knowing them better, although I know not everybody's comfortable talking about it or hearing about it. I don't mind tho. me and my girl have no problem talking about past sexual experiences so that we can curate better experiences for the two of us

Nah, not unless the death sex cult she escaped is coming to reclaim her - that would be a concern

Only if it is an interesting story that my SO wants to tell me. Everybody has a personal history and those memories and experiences belong only to that person and not to anybody else.

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