i actually willing to give a lot of forgiveness as long as that person shows me that they are changing to be better and didn't do the same thing as what they did before. but, if they are doing it again and again, i won't give them the same thing, and i will leave them immediately. forgiveness is given to someone who knows that they did something wrong, if they don't change.. then what's the point of giving it to them, no?

so, the answer is, as for me, no matter the second chance or otherwise, if they weren't showing me their guilty feelings and improvement, it would reach my limit.