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i actually willing to give a lot of forgiveness as long as that person shows me that they are changing to be better and didn't do the same thing as what they did before. but, if they are doing it again and again, i won't give them the same thing, and i will leave them immediately. forgiveness is given to someone who knows that they did something wrong, if they don't change.. then what's the point of giving it to them, no?
so, the answer is, as for me, no matter the second chance or otherwise, if they weren't showing me their guilty feelings and improvement, it would reach my limit.
Forgiving someone and believing they can change for the better is a complex and personal journey for each of us. There's no one-size-fits-all answer! It depends on various factors like how deeply we were hurt, the person's history, and whether they're genuinely willing to change. Sometimes, it can be tough to trust someone who has broken it multiple times or hasn't followed through on promises. But hey, there are cases where giving someone a chance to grow and improve is worth considering, especially if they've shown true remorse and are making sincere efforts to make amends. Just remember, you deserve to prioritize your own emotional well-being and set healthy boundaries. If you're ever unsure, talking it out with a trusted friend, family member, or a professional counselor can be a great help. In the end, trust your instincts and do what feels right for you! 👍
this might surprise some people but i’m actually very forgiving person :) if anyone had beef with me in the past, it wouldn’t stay too long. i might cut them off for my own sake but i forgave them. i prayed better things for them. just... as long as they don’t approach me again with bad intention, i am good! there’s no limit. i’m being my mom for this one.
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