Watch movies, read mangas or listening to music (avoid the one who will makes me remembering them).

Other than focusing on myself, maybe writing them either a written letter or digital, and writing all the deepest things you have bottled up inside of you. Then you can keep it or burn it/delete it. Yang penting your thoughts and emotions are expressing out somewhere. Atleast bakal lebih enteng.

I’ll do anything to distract my mind. Like watching movies or doing other productive things.

Yes, I usually try to focus on something else to distract myself.

usually, kalo awal awal lagi ngerasa gini aku lebih ke nangisin semuanya (sambil dengerin lagu galau, nikmatin sedihnya) terus baca baca ulang yang bisa inget dia and all the memories.. tapi kalo udah kelamaan, aku bakal cari distraction apapun itu :]

I used to look back on memories with them when it happened, and I would cry. Afterwards, I got used to watching movies and cycling as a distraction or do other small things like editing and tidying up my room.

aku biasanya malah makin inget kenangan sama orang itu sksksk, terus yaudah nikmatin rasa kangennya untuk beberapa saat, baru setelahnya cari kesibukan lain, atau lakuin hal-hal yang aku suka, dan menjauh dari segala hal yang bisa buat ingat dia.

Aku biasanya nurutin rasa kangenku dulu dengan cara liat lagi kenangan lama tentang dia sampe puas. Setelah itu aku nyibukin diri lakuin hal apapun yang bisa bikin pikiranku ke distract. Misalnya nonton atau baca sesuatu.

Nonton, baca buku, ngelakuin segala kegiatan biar gak kepikiran dia

If I were missing someone but couldn’t easily reach them, I would try to keep myself busy with things I enjoy and spend time with people who are around me. Taking care of myself and seeking support from friends or professionals would also be important. It’s okay to miss someone, but I would remind myself to find happiness and personal growth in my own life too.

Akuuu bakal nulis cerita tentang dia, bukan yang cerita kaya novel tapii kaya nyeritain dia gimana. Jujur, di aku manjur aja sih? soalnya ngerasa ada dia pas aku ngetik