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Liliane. · 14 answers · 2y

how do you guys move on when that person is still around you? you wish to cut them off but you just cant..

Jaga jarak... selalu nerapih hal itu kalau gak bisa cut off mereka. Itu agak ampuh sih

I am the one who will leave then. I don't have a good answer because I'm the one who can moved-on easily.

I'll step away from that account for a moment to reduce interaction with my ex. And I'll be back once my wounds have healed.

I just reduced the number of interactions to the littlest; from often to not at all. I mute their account if it's possible. If it's in real-life, I don't know since I do not fall in love with my friends. :D

Just focus on yourself. Sibukin diri, jalani rutinitas seperti biasa, lakukan hal-hal yg bikin seneng dan anggap lah lo main character di dunia ini.

WKWKWK ya... sibukin diri? kalau nggak bisa, mute aja dulu akunnya, atau kamu bikin akun baru tanpa dia?

Sibukin diri. Believe it or not, it really affects the process of forgetting someone, when you're busy you automatically don't have time to think about them.

Untuk awal-awal dimute dulu akunnya kali ya? Biar bisa menata hati dulu. Terus cari distraksi dan kesibukan yang bikin gak mikirin orang itu lagi.

i would set my focus on anything else, keep myself busy, having fun with my family and friends. i would choose not to entertain them, acting like they are just like any other person. so yeah i would keep our interaction short, only if it's necessary

I'll just let it flow. By accepting every feelings, every emotions and every things that will happen. Because feeling can gone by itself, you don't need to force anything.

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