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edith ☆ · 7 answers · 11mo

what do you think is the best way to detach from someone you're still in love with?

Focus on improving your own qualities aja, looking back to what happened won’t help. To burn the bridges you have to focus forward, improve yourself and embrace the sadness or negative feelings that still linger.

Cut all ties with them...? I personally find no contact system a bit futile. Love connects you to them emotionally, you need to phase out the feelings you have for them first, which is incredibly hard to do, but time will be kind to you and allow you to slowly move forwards. Eventually, hopefully, you can look back or look at them with no feelings, of any kinds, left.

There's a saying “Be so rooted in yourself that nobody’s absence or presence can disturb your inner peace.” camkan dan terapkan itu. :]

HA APA MAKSUDNYA? I think if it's about friends then I think I need to reflect again what they have been doing from good to bad habits and find any reasonable reason on why I need to detach from them.

Why do we have to separate oneself from people we still in love with? Cinta terlarang kah nih??

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