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C. · 18 answers · 12mo

Can you even truly forgive someone who has hurt you?

Yes.. but that depends. Contrary to what people believe, I don't hold grudges. But I'm not letting myself getting stepped on this year, so I don't hesitate to cut someone off. Especially when they no longer serve me.

i Actually didnt even care with them sih i meann i can easily lupain semua cz aku kayanya tipe orang yang bodoamatnya udh diluar nalar

Mungkin. Kadang, kalau dia minta maaf dan aku masih nyimpan dendam, aku bilang aku gak maafin sih....

Actually, it depends how bad it hurt me and are they really regret it or no. But, i think it's easy for me to forgive someone even though not 100%

Not at all. I might forgive them but I will never ever forget the pain that they left.

it depens, if they look regret then i'll forgive them. but if they look like they're just apologizing then i'm not willing to forgive them and then i'll avoid interacting with them.

Bisa, saya gapernah marah kepada siapapun yang menyakiti saya. Bagi saya, memafkan juga gaada salahnya karena itu merupakan salah satu hal yang harus ditanamkan biar tidak jadi dendam

It depends, if they have hurt me too deeply, it might be difficult to forgive them. But I'm the type of person who can't stay angry no matter how badly someone treats me. So, it's very easy for me to forgive those who hurt me.

Nope. I wasn’t doing that for entire my life. But, I made that like I did it. I did for forgive them so they’re do not have to worry about my feelings. Its just about … How to forgetten about something that you have been through, if I can say.

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