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Parama Abbe. · 14 answers · 2y

What are you guys doing to get over your ex who just broke up with you?

if I just broke up, I won't force myself to get over a breakup quickly. I'll just let it pain till I'm ready to stand up. when I'm ready, I'll try to spend some time by myself enjoying korean dramas, reading children's books, purchasing adorable items, and so forth.

i'll distant myself from them. closure is the only thing we need after break-up. give yourself a room to cry, to be sad, to be angry to someone, or to be puzzled about anything that might cross your mind. you may cry for the longest time you could do, it's normal way to respond breakup and heartbreak. let things happen as they should.

Giving myself a little treat after going through all the tough nights. Trying to make myself busy by talking to my friends or doing something productive. Believe me. This shall pass too.

Learn to live with this incredible pain I think? We embrace the pain. This takes time. Time is a great healer but time does never heal fully. So now that you have learned that this pain will always be there you accept the inescapable truth, and focus on yourself.

Nangis dan biarin diriku sedih sampai capek sendiri. Kalau udah ngerasa gak sesedih itu aku biasanya baru mulai nyibukin diri.

Ya yang pasti nggak segampang itu buat move on abis putus. Pasti ada prosesnya, kalau aku ya nikmatin prosesnya gimana, ngerasain sakitnya galaunya nangisnya. Nggak mau nyuruh move on soalnya aku nggak tau cara move on itu gimana, yang terpenting ikhlasin semua hubungannya semua kenangannya. ✋🏻

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