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Lintang · 4 answers · 1y

I wanna learn to enjoy being with myself without being lonely but I'm scared I'll enjoy it too much it's actually hard to enjoy other people's company again (speaking from experience).

So anyone got any advice on this?

It’s okay to feel alone, lost and empty. For everything that’s lonely finds its company, everything lost is meant to be found and everything empty eventually gets filled. So see it like this, think about all the terrible times you have lived through, and think about how they, too, have passed. You’re a survivor and you have to go through hell to find heaven. The same way you must break in order to find yourself whole again. So I enjoy every phase that I feel in my own self.

take your time, akan ada waktunya masing masing. maybe this time emang waktunya enjoy dengan diri sendiri

Dijalani aja bro gausah dipikir (speaking as someone yang jomblonya udah setahun)

I have no advice I could share, but perhaps you might want to focus on yourself first and worry about the rest later? I believe when you have found your peace, it's gonna be easier to navigate where to start on socializing again.

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