no offense (and I mean full offense), but fuck heteronormative expectations of hair tbh. just have the hair that makes you feel good about yourself and take good care of it. people who have some shit to say about your hair are usually so insecure and stuck in tradition that they think women with short hair are an insult and are shameful. it's sad, it's pathetic, and I don't wanna hear it. remember this: 1) beggars can't be choosers, 2) mind ya damn business, and 3) make sure ya ain't balding if you're gonna cast judgment on someone else's hair