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Laurelle · 9 answers · 1y

When you have a crush on someone, will you text first and re-text them if they don't reply? Or will you just wait until they text you? A friend of mine is contemplating. Which one do you think is wiser? 💭

Crush or not, I'm always thinking "do they wanna talk to me? Am I being annoying?" or some shit. So, I decided I won't text my crush until they texts me first.

Navigating communication with someone you have a crush on can be quite a delicate dance. When contemplating whether to text first or wait for a response, it's essential to consider the vibe between you two. If the energy is mutual and you're feeling confident, go ahead and send that text! However, if you're uncertain or want to maintain an air of mystery, sit tight and let them make the first move. Always remember, patience is a virtue, and being classy is never out of style.

I might text first but won’t re-text if they haven’t replied to my messages. I’m not going to highlight anything that I’m attracted to them.

I prefer to text first or re-text again if they didn't respond to my chat for hours or maybe within days, with some kind of meme or anything light and funny that doesn't need an immediate reply! It's just me trying to show them that I think of them when I see this or that, and because the things make me laugh, I hope those things will make them laugh too— anything to let them know that they're always in my thoughts!

I will choose to text first and re-text if they didn't responded my chat for hours.. i think the first one would be fine too! So their crush knows that your friend is waiting and excited to text them.

it depends on the situation. if they are busy, i won't text them again. but if they don't reply for no reason, i'll wait at least two days before sending another message. i'm scared to annoy them, so i'd rather wait :]]

hmm... it depends on the situation. if they're having a busy day or doing something that can't be disturbed then i'll wait until they reply. but if not then i'll just text them whenever i think it's appropriate to do so. i will also re-text if i feel like i need to

if they ever do double texting to me, i'd re-text them. sometimes i send other messages until a period i think is already okay. i do mirror their energy.

i had a crush on another person that they're rather the type that never re-texts, i do the exact. the mirror thing. i never re-text either.

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