forget everything related to it.

It's little bit hard, deh. But, I just thinking about their mistakes; then I hate them ....

It isn't a good choice. Better if you are looking for new hobbies and you'll be happier. Semangat!

Inget kesalahannya, nyibukin diri, dan jangan stalk² lagi

APA YA, aku biasanya yaudah... langsung lupain aja, tanpa ada mikirin perasaan orang tersebut. soalnya kaya pertanyaan kamu. "deserves to be forgotten."

I'm just try not to force myself to forget that person, karena makin dipaksa makin kepikiran. Jadi yaudah biar aja sampe dia ilang sendiri sambil nyibukin diri

this is the question i want to ask too..

don't remember anything about it. jauhin semua hal yang bersangkutan sama dia terus nyibukin diri juga bisa bantu buat distract pikiran biar gak inget dia terus!

hmm kalau lupa secara sengaja sih aku ga pernah:( ga tau caranya gimana ga bisaa 😞 tapi + nya aku pelupa hehe

keep my self busy. don't stalk them anymore. trying to not remember any memories with them.

Gampang Don't remember anything about it, just make it a memory

jangan kepoin lagi, cari kegiatan baru yang bikin kamu enjoy sama dunia kamu sendiri. lama-lama bakal terbiasa tanpa orang itu trus udah deh nanti lupa sama dia

don't remember anything about it. even though it's a memory, but in my opinion it's just a rotten memory with him/her. so why waste time remembering him/her. 😅

Ignoring them atau nyibukin diri aja sih kalau gue.

I'd say the first step is terima aja ke diri sendiri that you can't just "forget" that person. Memories of them will always pop up, and the feelings can still be there. It's okeeey. It's a part of the healing process. Then, when you feel like.. udah beneran gabisa forget them, you can focus on rebuilding your life. Focus on doing things that make you happy and spending time with people who make you happy. Kalau perlu, don't be afraid to reach out for extra support dari temen-temen kamu atau keluarga kamu.. if things still feel overwhelming.

just ignore their existence