Dabria · 5 answers · 1y
What's your action to deal with anyone with uncountable insecurity rant? Not gonna invalidate their feelings but how if they keep coming to you to rant about them being unworthy, insecure, and other feelings which radiate selfless. Negative evergy is so draining apalagi kalo orangnya can't read the room kayak you're also sad terus dia tiba-tiba dateng cerita dengan insecuritynya. Capek anjir tapi takutnya kalo speak up ke dia ntar dianya ngerasa tersakiti dan gaada yang peduli.
Kalau gue tetep ngasih tau sih. Pertama gue bakal mencoba buat feedback, tapi endingnya bakal bilang, "maaf ya kalau feedbacknya kurang. Sejujurnya gue juga lagi kurang baik nih keadaannya. Semoga kita samasama feel better ya. Semangat!" Semacam itu lah. Jadi gue tetep membuktikan kepedulian gue walau sedikit, tapi abis itu minta pengertian dia. Biasanya tementemen gue paham sih. Kalau dia gak bisa menerima itu ya it's simple as they're not a good friend for us. Egois gitu.
