[02-28-19]

That's possible? I think it's like a curve? you get to 90% pretty quick? but the rest comes slowly? … maybe not. Maybe a few years? They also have to be paying attention.

Umm! It may take days or months or years or even can take entire life.

I have no clue tbh, I sometimes do not understand myself.

About a year maybe 🤷‍♀️ I’m pretty closed up I’m not gunna lie

tbf, there are some people I interact with daily that I barely know just because there aren't that many appropriate opportunities to open up, be vulnerable, and talk about your deepest, darkest sheeit. But if there were a moderate number of opportunities on a regular basis to do that, probably a few months (ballparking it). I like to open up to people so we can get to know each other, but in some circumstances it's harder to make that happen just because of the setting we're in (grad school in this case)

If they want to understand, it will take 15 years or so.

Um, either right away or never and there doesn't seem to be much middle ground :-P

Very long, I'm not much of a talker.