People seem to open up around me.

I'm hot and cold, if I am in a warm mood people will tell me every manner of bizarre shit they are up to, but if I can't be bothered then people pick up on that too, it's super good for relationships lemme tell ya

Either. They’ll come around when they come around. No pressure.

Depends. When I switched my shield on they guard and when my shields are down they look in suspicion if they recognise me at all as being there. Some open up when I approach them.

People are receptive to their own desires. If there are more walls of silence then merely consider the vast open unknowns for ones own freedom to explore than waste precious energy trying to knock down others truths