about your post "Reply to this post with something kinky you've been in the mood for lately, and I'll make an attempt to flirt with you about it" on fedi : what about teasing someone in chastity and denied to cum ? :3
Tricky... I don't quite get the chastity thing, myself. For me, getting to feel good is kind of the point, ultimately.
Though, thinking about it, I suppose I can see it as a different kind of good feeling. Knowing that you've done what you're told, resisted temptation. The feeling of overcoming a base urge in order to better reflect your- well, obedience, I assume. Let's go with that.
I imagine the hard part is sticking to it when nobody's watching, though. When you're anonymous like this, and a little indiscretion would go unnoticed. If you were to reach down and start touching, well... nobody would know. You could have your cake and eat it, too. You could finally feel that full-bodied, sheet-grabbing, wonderful climax, and maintain your streak in the eyes of those keeping score.
But you won't do that.
Would you be willing to tell us what kind of non-free software/third-parties (aws, etc.) handle triggerphrase mastodon-related data? The instance seems cool but I don't like signing up without knowing this sort of thing.
Certainly 😄 None! It's all stored on hardware I own - though I can't guarantee the same from the servers we federate with.
hi same person from the last q you answered: admittedly someone was doing a LOT of heavy lifting yeah. I want to practice hypnotism as a skill but worry muchly about "messing up" because I end up worrying that I'll do something catastrophically wrong, even if my usual kink framework would not allow it. And I am also now just realizing this is not a question. Thank you, regardless, for the response. Maybe I'll give topping a shot soon.
Good luck to you! I think you'll find pretty quickly that 'catastrophically wrong' is, like, very unlikely to be anywhere near on the table. You got this!
Break down my mind and make me yours
And what do I get for my trouble, hmm? Broken pets aren't hard to come by.
What in your opinion is an underrated sensation to play with when doing hypnotic sensation play?
'Underrated' I'm not sure about, but I'm going to say anything involving like, stuff going inside the body 😄 Especially the ear / brain cavity. It always gets subjects really delightfully squirmy and whimpery. Plus it's one of those cool, kinda-unique-to-hypno things
Do you think its possible for someone who has never tried hypnotizing someone (and has like, almost no improv skill developed) to hypnotize someone? Asking for myself, because while I've wanted to try it, I get too nervous to project the confidence like i want, and also worry i wouldn't know how to properly give someone what they want from trance.
I don't see why it wouldn't be, but the word 'someone' is doing a lot of heavy lifting here. Does your subject need you to project confidence? You might have trouble with that. Do they require a flexible, improv-driven approach? You might have trouble with that too. Is your subject the type to demand their most complex and intricate fantasies right from the word 'go'? That's on them, honestly, but like, also trouble.
Not every subject needs those things, however! Improv is a valuable skill to have when you're working with a lot of different subjects, definitely, but you can take a prepared script into a session and have a great time. I've worked with folks who do that, and it was a good time. Confidence helps keep a measured and steady pace, certainly, but you don't need to have that either. You can build up to these things with time, if you want - or you can just try and find your own style, rely on things that are closer to your comfort zone.
It's like any other skill - with practice, you can find out what your way of being a hypnotist is like. Maybe you stick to scripts, maybe you develop a reportoire of distinct techniques, maybe you stick to playing with people who have a clear understanding of what they need to go under. If hypnotizing people is something that you want, that genuinely excites and interests you, then practice is all it takes. You do need subjects who're genuinely willing to help you work on that stuff, which is easier said than done, but far from impossible.
What are some like, underrated aspects that can make a good V.G.T.?
Underrated, like, globally? When they're wimpy and agencyless. Gamers always complain about that, but we love it when a boy is powerless
Underrated among those who appreciate twinks? I think it's hot when the twink can magically float. There's a like... delicate vibe to it? It's a very gentle way of getting around, I think.
Which video game twinks you like do you think you'd lose in a fight against, and which ones would you win against?
Win: Vaan from FFXII. I haven't beat the game yet so he probably kills god or something, but let's be real - I could take him.
9S from Nier Automata. He may be a machine built specifically for murder, but I guarantee you if I called him a bitch he'd start crying
Raiden (MGS2): "Hey check out this GameFAQs thread from 2002. They're talking about you!"
Lose: Raiden (Revengeance-era). The heels. The hair. I'd be quaking in my fucking boots.
Link (any). I tried to pick even just one twink Link I could take out, but like. He just wouldn't give up, is the problem. Throw hands all you want, he's not gonna stop.
G'raha Tia. My poor heart couldn't take it.
What are the dominant taxonomies of video game twinks?
👀 Who said that
I don't have a cat
I've had lifelong "flinch" reactions that have gradually worn down into freeze reactions around people I trust and it's kinda intense but, very tempting to lean into it and just wait for the other's move. hard to make it seem encouraging though, dont ya think?
Yeah that's rough! If you can communicate that trouble in advance then maybe you won't need to rely so much on seeming one way or another?
Okay who left their subject here 😤 Is someone gonna tidy this up or what
Ever though about breaking the Habit?
Thought about it, sure. Pretty often 😄 Putting it into practice, though, is more of a challenge - one my current play partners aren't really game for
If you could pick a new subject, how would you like them?
Curious question! I don't know if I can answer it exactly as worded, but I think what I'm not getting to do with the subjects I have is, like, tech kinky computery stuff? It'd be nice to have a subject I felt like I could really really lean into for that, where that's the main thing we do together. That and having them around in person.
That said, it's more important to me that I get along with the subject than we do the kink stuff I'm after, and I'm about to go on holiday for two months anyway so I definitely won't be able to take on anyone new. Maybe after that!
So, first, let's put a strong emphasis on 'fantasy' as in, 'fictional concept I enjoy' and not 'thing I plan to do to someone'.
But yeah, if you want darkest darkest, that's A) not something I've settled on, and B) likely would not be public information, but! Lately I've been on a slow-burn corruption kink sorta kick - wanting to take the role of a trusted confidant who gives advice and instructions that gradually warp someone into doing things that they never would on their own. Poison-tongued advisors to the throne, abusive therapists, corrupted artifacts, so on. I'd be blameless, of course - people would be suspicious of my influence, but my victim only ever speaks of me with the highest regard, and they're so forceful now that it's hard to challenge them. All with a healthy dose of hypnotic suggestion and conditioning!
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