I did that tons of time but it only brought me bigger problems, so I stopped.

It's necessary sometimes. Daripada nyari validasi, sebenernya lebih ke nyari sudut pandang lain. Kira-kira dari sudut pandang lain apa bener gitu? Atau ada pandangan lain?

VERY MUCH NECESSARY, i love to get validation from people that i think are precious to me

Frank to admit, yes. It raises my self-esteem about my perception arranged in my head when you find other who is also in the same boat with you in a way of comprehending things. Commons also tend to believe in other’s first a little more than theirselves, which actually this nature must not be nurtured any longer, so many more of things need to learn.