Mmmhm like my stepdad always told me you can’t take care of nobody if you don’t take care of you

Yes, it is.. But I still don't get to do it

I believe that to be true. I got qualified as a mental health first aider a while back and it was a key point they stressed.

It's common wisdom, it's okay to me.
Those who have forgotten self care in way of helping others learn that lession.

I say..Win your own battle then you can fight for others

Yes, even the lady on the airplane says in the event of a loss of cabin pressure you should put on your own oxygen mask before assisting others

No, I prefer not to do anything for anyone including myself

Yes. I agree