That sucks. 😕

Don't listen to the nay-sayers, bro. I'm quite confident in your ability to successfully and quite homosexually bone down with ANY character of ANY gender in all of media. 😎

I sometimes wonder if I might be doing cis gay men some sort of "disservice" by having changed my personal terminology to "pan" instead of "gay" and "demimale" and "genderqueer" instead of "cis."

Why do I feel the need to change how I identify, simply because I'm also attracted to enbies and trans peeps? Why does being a little outside traditional gender norms mean I must stop calling myself "cis"? and WHY am I choosing to conform to the established societal notion that a man can't like more femme-aligned clothing or have a not-feminine-yet-not-strictly-masculine gender expression?

Shouldn't I be the example that boys don't HAVE to like guns and sports and roughhousing? Should I not take a stand against archaic patriarchal expectations of men everywhere? It's an interesting dilemma. 🤔

...or it would be, if I weren't now way too GODDAMN old to give a flying crap anymore. 😆 I found something about myself after several decades of being in this "C+ AT BEST" spinning wet rock that caused everything to click and make sense in a very surprising way and I couldn't be more intrigued and excited to continue exploring. I don't have room in my schedule to care about what will they think of me. That goes both for the right-wing bigots or for any "um, actually" gender nerds who might tell me "UR DOIN IT RONG." 😏 I'm sure the non-conforming cishets will find another worthy champion to fight society's gender hegemony. I'm too busy being gay for stuff.

I am that I am, for that which I am... is ME. 😁

And to come full circle, I think "gay" is not just a sexual preference. It is a much broader state of being. So, you wonderful nonbinary self can 100% be gay for anyone and anything. 😉

That's the thing about gay bitches like us. 😌 We, the Fae, transcend such petty mortal affairs as "gender" and "sexuality."

I don't... books too good. 😅

I guess the last book I read was the audiobook for "The Eye of the World," the first book of "The Wheel of Time" series by Robert Jordan. As I mentioned before, I'm an uncultured swine so normally I wouldn't have bothered with it (in fact, I never had even though I've known about the series for over 20 years) but I liked the show and the fact that Rosamund Pike narrated it meant I had to.

I mostly read stuff on the internet (news or science articles) or TTRPG manuals for games I'll never have anyone to play with. 😓 I remember reading "Contact" a long time ago and the TERF's wizard saga... I'm sure there's a few more but I can't quite remember.

As for a favourite book, no. I can't say I have one, sorry for the boring answer.

Boy, that is a HUGE assumption. Doing a lot of heavy lifting there. 😅

It's actually a really hard question. I don't exactly have a "career path" planned nor do I have a passion when it comes to work.

When I was a teenager I wanted to make video games, so I went to a two-year course that was supposed to teach me programming but, little by little, the curriculum was shifted into basic-ass, generic "computer stuff" and that school turned out to be a bit scammy (long story.)

In my early 20s I was strongly considering medical school but life (and, if I'm honest, my neurofuckiness) got in the way and that never got close to being able to happen.

I've only taken a couple of jobs and they were just whatever was practical. Typical go-to options: check-out clerk and customer service agent.

So, I think I've stalled enough and I'm still not able to answer it. At least I know one damn thing is clear: it would be something where the goddamn public would STAY THE CRAP AWAY from me. 😆

I've sometimes wondered what it would be like to hold elected office or practice law. Would I be able to fight for social justice or would I get destroyed by the corrupt system, if I ever got anywhere in the first place. My partner and I have even thought about going into (ugh) "content creation" because "damn it, we would do it right" but that's not a realistic option for 99.99% of those who go into it. And even though looking at the garbage that has found success is downright demoralising, it's still like winning the lottery.

Thanks for the question, mentally-draining as it was 😅 I'm sorry I can't repay you with an actual, proper answer but even with your caveat of ignoring lack of training and education, I can't think of anything that would make me happy. So far, I've only seen jobs as something mundane I had to get so I could buy m'stuff ('cause CAPITALISM!), not something I derive satisfaction from, let alone happiness.

If I ever figure out an answer, I promise to post it on Mastodon. Deal? 😁

You can't just drop a question like that on people. Rude. 🥺 I hate having to answer "I don't know 'cause I can't think of anything 'cause I don't have many references 'cause I'm uncultured AF 'cause I suck"

Middle Earth is either awfully dangerous or super boring (great, there's "peace" but magic's gone. 🙄) The most recent one I've watched is The Wheel of Time and that's even worse. Only women can do magic and I don't think they have exceptions for demiboys (would have to be a homebrewed version and that'd be cheating.)

Oh, I think I got it. The world of "The Dragon Prince." So far, only one human has been able to do "natural" magic in the present instead of the evil dark magic that humans normally had access to, but I don't think it'd be too much of a stretch to say that afterwards, the door was opened for other humans to learn it.

Plus, it's a queer-friendly world and three months should be enough time to chat up some elven cuties. 😍

First of all, how dare you? don't ever call whatever the ass it is I post "content" 😅 In no jurisdiction of the world can it legally be called that. I checked.

Second of all, what gives you the right...? to say such a nice thing. 🥺 I'm sorry to hear about your situation. Please help yourself to some Yuri-branded, virtual hugs, cuddles, smooches and/or warmest wishes. Whichever ones you feel you need. It's free refills on all. (I am now doing that thing where you make a heart with you hands, except it sucks 'cause I cannot get it right ever)

Nice Mail Time spider reference. By the way, you DO know I am now going to have to set my computer on fire and throw it out the window, right? 'K thanks 😒

PS: No worries, I loved your chicken scratch. Don't forget to share, like and subscribe on all my "sosh." SMASH that fave button and I'll see all of y'all on m'next video. BYEEEEEEE.