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grillchen · 4 answers · 1y

if u were to go on a date with your partner or someone new. but u are completely stressed out because of other reasons and just exhausted. would u still go? be honest about it? or call it off?

If I were to call it off, I'd be sure to arrange another date to show that I'm still interested. But also do it as early as possible so not to be last minute. Otherwise I'd try to make the most of it and have fun, and if I'm not feeling it from the get go then say so and just have a friendly outing with them if they're still good with that.

i don't go on dates so that probably wouldn't happen but if i agreed on anything with someone i'd go anyway

I'm not ready to date anyone so that scenario is probably never gonna happen, or that would be cancelled because I would be panicking at the idea of a date. But assuming I somehow felt like dating, then once the date is set I wouldn't be able to cancel it because I would feel too pressured to go. Maybe, just maybe, if it's with someone I trust, someone with which I know for sure canceling would not hurt them or hurt our relationship, or if the consequences of not canceling would be far worse, then maybe I would tell them everything. I almost never open up that much though, unless I am really seeking attention.

depends on what the date is if its just being comfy or smthng that can help get rid of stress id be honest and still go

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