친애하는, claire. · 21 answers · 11d

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⋆ ౨ৎ hi, guys! i'm curious about your preferences when it comes to comfort!

suppose you were crying and someone noticed it; what would you want them to do? would you prefer a hug? a pat on the back? i would love to know your soft-spot!
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I would be happy if I got a hug and a pat on the head, it would be better if they gave me words that make me feel better <3

I don't often cry in front of people. But if I do, I prefer it when they sit next to me and listen to what's in my heart. A pat on the back also mean a lot to me

I'd really appreciate it if people gave me some space when I'm crying, and then, if they gave me a hug afterwards, that would mean a lot to me.

well i prefer someone that said nothing but sit beside me for hours. i would also like a hug or a small pat on my head

Di peluk aja sama pat pat, tanpa nanya kenapa atau ngomong apapun sampai aku sendiri yang cerita

i would hate it if someone actually have to see me cry. but truthfully speaking, i do like it if someone just sit with me without having to say anything. just enjoying each others company when they know there's something in my mind. nothing else, just a company, just their presence is the biggest comfort that i enjoyed.

honestly i think im someone who craves physical comfort when im feeling upset. i dont rlly know why but i just tend to get rlly overwhelmed w my emotions sometimes n when that happens i just want to be hugged, yk. its just rlly comforting n makes me feel loved and safe. if u give me physical comfort, ill feel much better in a matter of seconds.

but tbh, i wouldnt mind any form of comfort, as long as its genuine n heartfelt, that would be enough for me ☺️

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