omg i died and killed myself thinking of shunnao first date i'm so shyyyy

no matter the verse i can easily see naoya outright refusing any first dates if he's not the one initiating it. he believe's its a man's job to do that sort of thing (shunxiang is a cisgender man what is naoya yapping about? stop him at once). he'd take shunxiang out to a very fine dining and elite restaurant like the very traditionalist stuff. he's not the type to enjoy other sorts of dates like picnics or movies because he thinks they're stupid. pays the bill, lets shunxiang get whatever he wants ... the conversation feels more like an interview if i'm being honest ??? thats especially with jjk naoya, but with naoya in other modern verses, i feel like it'd be toned down a little but any date with him Would NOT be casual! they both date to marry and don't believe in dating for fun

invites shunxiang back to his home afterwards i think. if it were anybody else and they said no he'd call then a bitch, ghost them and be the worst situationship of their lives but shunxiang unfortunately says yes. What happens next? Heh....

this actually hurt me on a level i was unaware of experiencing... i'm suuuuch a sucker for this kinda stuff man especially when it comes to kenjaku i will forever find her so interesting and i will love her forever. i hate how i can't add onto this because i feel like its already been said before/EYE have already said it before since i've discussed this At Length in the past Butt man it makes me die every time. kenjaku spending over a thousand years for a delicately orchestrated plan and the majority of their life that they won't even see come to fruition.. losing themselves and their personality over the years that they had lost through ideas of a complete loss of individuality and identity that was molded through quite literally Changing Who He Was . losing her friends, her family ...... i don't like jujutsu gaysen anymore

this is so adorable i'm absolutely seething and running around and ripping clothes off with my teeth thinking about it man. it'd be so unlikely that they met though and it KEEELSSS MEEE !!! shunxiang was soooooosososo spoiled when he was growing up since he's the pride and joy of his family lol he was put into an elite private school program and did weird things like make those needlessly detailed mini houses that even have mini books and each floorboard is individual DO YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN BECAUSE HE'D 100% DO THOSE WHEN HE WAS YOUNGER.

anyways something about shunxiang and sekido playdates when they were younger fatally Wounds Me. it being sekido's birthday and him having a "birthday party" (i.e shunxiang and sekido's family) and shunxiang gifting sekido a hand-written card with $100 and several presents ... ohhhh kill me now i'm not well. them spending time playing in their background and tuckering themselves out from running all day , shunxiang getting his clothes dirty even though he hates the feeling of dirt on his clothes/his body ........... FALLING ASLEEP TOGETHER ON THE COUCH TOGETHER AND REIKA TAKING A PICTURE AND PUTTING IT IN A PHOTO ALBUM!!!!! RISHA MUST BE THE SACRIFICE TO MAKE THIS TRUE

chengjie doesn't have any unpleasant thoughts on tadatsugu and they kind of shut their brain off whenever shunxiang begins talking negatively about him, because as much as he loves shunxiang as a friend he isn't one to believe in partial, biased stories especially when they're about love cause thats so personal to him. he hopes tadatsugu is doing well and would love to sit down and have a coffee chat with him if they ever met

they met shunxiang when chengjie came up to him asking for help to get to his apartment because he doesn't have a phone and he forgot his way. when shunxiang gave him directions chengjie just said "okay :)" and walked over to him and held his hand because he expected him to lead the way dhfhehdhdheb AND HE DID! he couldn't say no to him. they talked the entire way and they became friends

the death of his boyfriend! chengjie died when he was 21 years old (286 now) of a broken heart. i feel like you can sense where i'm going with this. the year was 1759 when chengjie's boyfriend died and chengjie was forced to leave his home and essentially was on the run for half a year to try and not die ... he was very depressed during this time and he eventually crawled into a small, cold place to, quite literally, lay down and let nature take its course ): he died alone of a broken heart and 100 or so years later he woke up as a reanimated corpse/zombie/jiangshi and now he is trying to relearn how to LOVE whilst COPING WITH HIS GRIEF!

hey so this killed me!

shunkido now is very sweet but i imagine they still have their fair share of arguments, admittedly primarily spurred on by sekido because shunxiang believes he's above that sort of thing and "doesn't have time for petty screaming matches" ... but i don't think that'd by why shunkido broke up. the most realistic thing i can see happening is sekido being unable to cope or even get used to shunxiang's fame that he has because of his job. shunxiang is very well known, not only because of his modeling but just his Presence like he's treated as a full-fledged celebrity and there's freaks like risha genesisbling on shunxiangtwt with full fancams and layouts dedicated to him. being with a person like that is a very big change from sekido's usual life (literally hangs around the worst people that dgaf if he's dead but whatever) but i also see him getting legitimately 100% deadass jealous over shunxiang's jobs he has sometimes. says bs how he's "not allowed to do promotions for underwear anymore" because then people see him TOO much and hes insecure. he'd always write it off as a different reason i think though than the truth. shunxiang gets annoyed with this and leaves, blocks his number on all platforms and essentially removes any trace he ever had in his life xx