Another long answer so hopefully I don't need to repeat myself about this.

If you think that me saying "I am not required to meet a random faceless stranger's made up expectations of me" is impolite, then oh well. Because it's extremely rude to expect someone else to cater to your opinions of how they should be. It's also rude to scold, shame, or belittle someone for standing up for themselves and calling out what they feel is unfair and unkind. I will not apologize for standing up for myself when I've done nothing wrong but fail to meet an imaginary Switch Shipper KPI.

Go look at other ship fixed servers because Gambler's Paradise is EXTREMELY Switch friendly to only restrict nsfw where dynamic actually matters. I can name at least one space that doesn't even allow switch creators to post their work or be shared. It's a bannable offense in some others to bring it up.

The #Switch-And-Vers room is there for anyone who wants it locked behind a role, and invisible to the ones who don't want to see it. At time of typing, 46% of the server members have that role. 54% do not and they are not required to.

If you think this server is restrictive or intolerant to vers/aventio- you just don't like people having a preference at all.

I will always advocate for tolerance, not force feeding that everyone has to be the same and have absolutely no preferences of dynamic. That has never been my "brand" and never will be. People are allowed to like different things so long as they're not being assholes about it, and that includes a switch person requiring fixed people to switch. The only thing I've ever asked for is tolerance of switch'rs and being nice to them just like they would another fixed. I have never, and still do not, understand the hostility to switch- nor am I hostile to reverse in the ships I'm more fixed in.

I have always had preferences. For example: I prefer Luckae in most things and have for a very long time now, I talk about it pretty openly. I joke with the CrownFinch server sometimes that I need to recruit more Luckae leans because there's so much Kaeluc in that house. It's not a secret. Kaeluc is just more interesting to me as a HC than Aventio is, so I enjoy switching more in KLK than Ratiorine.

Unfollow button is right there and so is mute/block. I recommend you use it if that bothers you for some reason.

Long answer incoming because ???? Huh???

Gambler's Paradise is more flexible than most fixed servers, tbh. Vers/Aventio is allowed in the SFW areas completely and there is one (1) nsfw room locked and gated behind a role for posting spicy things. We're very tolerant, but the server is dedicated ratiorine over anything else.

I'm kinda struggling to see what you expect me to do or say here? Do I really NEED to explain myself because you made an assumption and put an expectation on me? Isn't that a little unfair and kind of mean? Like... am I supposed to feel bad I disappointed you? Am I supposed to apologize that I didn't do what YOU expected me to?

Come on now. Don't be entitled and push your whims and expectations on people you don't even have the courage to face.

I have always been more heavily leaning / fixed-ish on Wriolette, Haikaveh, and now Ratiorine. Nothing new. I'm switch friendly and OK but that doesn't mean I personally or actively switch all of my ships. I have go-to and preference like everyone else. I don't mind seeing the reverse and it does not bother me to exist or be enjoyed by other people- but it does nothing for me. I wanted a space that makes me happy and is filled with things I enjoy.

I hope you find what you're looking for, and I hope you didn't mean to sound like a rude ass, but this was rude as hell and I genuinely hope you don't join my server if you have that sort of attitude towards people making stuff in the fandom. No one should be required to meet your expectations, fulfill your hopes, or cater to your tastes unless you're paying them.

Awe thank you!
When they are still young and/or getting together, probably insanely jealous but maybe not even realizing it. Touching, marking- anything to showcase. Standing a liiiiiiiiiiittle too closeeee.... everyone fucking knows but they are doing this peacocking mating dance around each other and never admitting it.

Once they're post fight and established? Kaeya probably finds situations like Donna amusing in a weird twisted way. She can dream forever but she will never have a drop. It's his little thing~ so he can smile in knowing and take pride in it. Instead of getting jealous, he gets cocky. Like haha, bitches that's /mine/ and you have no chance. Have a lovely day, Ma'am, (I'm going to go home fuck the man you can only dream about until one of us cries).

I don't honestly think Diluc would mind Kaeya being friendly to get jealous- that's how he is, and he would trust him. Kinda the journey of their coupling to trust each other again- yeh? However, if someone tries to FORCE Kaeya, or makes him uncomfortable, the full brunt of hell is unleashed on the poor soul. It would never be Kaeya's fault.

"You didn't have to throw it /that/ hard, Master Diluc."
"I did."