I just want to fly under the radar and be left alone.

Be myself.Do whatever I want in life

We all want to be like our peer group. The younger the more. When we grow up we do not always want to be like the best bully of our peers, we develop an own style, stance and personality. Or we hope we do. Some stop developing at the "fucked up bully" level though.

I feel like a penguin born in a society suited for flying birds. I'd rather be just another normie pigeon.

why not both? both sound good and don't seem mutually exclusive

Ppl want to be unique and fit in its funny😄

I want to society to tell me I'm special.

I want to not feel like a goblin when I go out of doors

You want to be different, but not TOO different ;)