Pandy · 7 answers · 3y

On a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being 'they are a complete mystery', 10 being 'I can read them all like a book) how well would you say you understand men?

My scorching hot take: I don't believe men and women are THAT different at their core, maybe some different methods and tactics but the underlying needs are the same, and while unmet needs might express differently, but that's not unique to a particular sex

No thanks, I think it's big incel-energy to claim you can understand or misunderstand someone based on their gender alone. In my experience, anyone who does claim to understand or misunderstand someone based on their gender alone is usually pretty clueless about people in general. They 're people who are often rude, notably selfish, and deeply insecure in some of the worst or most disruptive ways and completely determined to never admit that, so they can never work on getting better.

10/10 Men are egotists and they want what they can't have. I think it's pretty telling most sex offenders are almost exclusively men.

I do not understand any men, I can find reasons that might explain behaviour, but I'm often not sure if my reasoning is right, but I need not to make that a scientific examination. I'd say, maybe 5. Some are super cute and quite easy to "red", some do hide behind a smoke curtain, which often seems to go along with a very "male" behaviour, at least that is what those say. But probably our understanding in general is more based upon bias than true understanding?

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