I'm trying to think of the most inappropriate places a man has asked me out, and two occasions instantly spring to mind. Once was at a job interview: by the man interviewing me. Just me and him in the room. He put his hand on my leg and promised me the job if I went out with him - amongst other things. Totally not appropriate in any shape or form. The other time, I was about 18, working in a deli, and was on my hands and knees inside the glass counter/cabinet thing where the cheese was displayed (don't ask!). Anyway, this guy I sort of knew came in (with his brother in tow!) and asked me to go to a party with him that night. There were customers around (not forgetting the brother), what the hell was I supposed to say?! Reader, I went to the party. His extremely annoyed ex showed up and caused a huge scene. I happily exited the party, and even more happily, never set eyes on him again.
I'm with Sean in the fact that nowhere is really out of bounds - it should go without saying that doctors, clergy, police etc should never be asking patients/people they have ongoing professional dealings with out, under any circumstances. Other than that, I really don't mind.
Do not hit on me at work.
I am paid to be nice to you.
I hate being hit on at work and anyone who thinks it's acceptable to hit on someone at work is an absolute creep in my opinion.
I don't want to be hit on it flirted with anywhere at all.
But work is just tacky because you know they are doing it on purpose because they know you have to be nice to them. Creepy
Weddings are the best place ever, should probably avoid the bride but everyone else is fair game 😛 honestly there is no such thing as an 100% unacceptable place, it's highly situational, but the vast majority of people have no sense of the moment and how to read a situation, so they are better off never trying to secure the bag at a funeral or whatever
do not hit on me while I am working - I am paid to be nice to you. other professional settings perhaps? if they are working and I am there as a customer/client/etc also not really appropriate (doctor, teacher, cashier, etc.)
I don’t love people approaching me for no reason but as long as they are respectful and don’t react badly to a no i’m ok with that. other than that I don’t take issue to people hitting on me
I'd say there are places that offer more and harder obstacles than others. 'Four weddings and a funeral' told us that there's hardly any unacceptable places. However, there are occasions when I would not dare to stare at a love interest.
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