Had to google this but I'm sure I've been on both ends of it

Is that like when someone keeps you on the metaphorical hook? If so, for sure.

I do it all the time, If I'm not happy nobody's happy! Really, I don't much, like I seem to attract women that are more like 'yeah yeah lovely now get out, I will call again when I need you' - which is cold in a way but it is very clear where I stand

Leaving the back door open? Yep. Options.

Breadcrumbing + straight out ghosting + complete loss of interest = 100% me