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Katie · 8 answers · 1y

If you had to choose between being forgotten or being left alone, and I admit both sounds painful in a way that I wish you won’t have to experience them, which is more bearable for you and why?

Being left alone? Idk but I think being forgotten also means if we're nothing after all the time we spent with them like... Okay that's hurt actually.

being left alone, i feel fully content by myself dd! it doesnt sting as much as being forgotten

Being left alone. Because if I were to be left alone, at least they didn't forget my presence in this world.

None of them are bearable but to answer your question, I would prefer being left alone rather than being forgotten. By all mean, I may choose myself to be alone too, and live happily without much contact with other people.

Well, what’s different between these choices? Being forgotten, means all memories will simply disappear and being left alone, means you’ll be forgotten as well as they won’t stay around us anymore by the time they leave us, don’t you think?

I think I've been besties with loneliness, so I'd choose being left alone as something that is more bearable to me. Being forgotten hurts the most, for I can't help but feeling disappointed whenever someone forgets me. What about you, unnie?

left alone. being forgotten means.. all of their memories about you equals to nothing. it’s like.. all the things you did with them returns to a vain.

i loudly say that i choose to be forgotten and i’ll make new memories with them. why not be left alone? i will not be willing to see the people i love just leave, i wish i gone first.

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