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Shaza. · 9 answers · 12mo

May I know how do you tell if you really like that person or just like the idea of that person in your head?

if I just like the idea of that person, aku gak akan pernah sampai namanya merasa kesepian kalau dia hilang beberapa jam. but if I really liked that person, I would die of loneliness when he's gone for a while. 🫠

it might be a bit complicated to differentiate, but i believe to truly understand how you feel about a person, you need to know them. if you’re okay with the flaws they’ve never shown, if you embrace their imperfections and even grow to like them more, then you can confidently say that you really like the person. however, if their true self leaves you “a bit disappointed,” then i suppose it’s safe to say that you only like the idea of that person.

I realized I really like that person when he's away, I'm waiting for him and expecting his replies. But when I'm only be in love when he's around and not finding him when he's away, that's only the idea of that person.

Gabisa ditinggal lama-lama, pengen sama dia terus, selalu nungguin notifnya dan super duper happy kalo notifnya muncul, pengen tau banyak hal tentang dia.

Actually if we talk about the realistic here, I even won't tell anyone about what I feel towards my crush. Tapi kalau berandai-andai, kayaknya aku bakal berusaha terus ada di deket dia.. Mau harus jadi baik terus atau sebaliknya jadi jail, I will try everything to be close to them.

I’m all cheerful around them. My thing is ghosting people’s messages <\3— like popping in to say hi and then disappearing. But with THAT person, i never ignore his texts. Suddenly, im the one who’s always there. I’ll be faithfully his human diary. I will talk a lot next to someone i like. Basically, it shows when i have a crush on someone ૮꒰ྀི⸝⸝> . <⸝⸝꒱ྀིა

I remain silent, and I would blabber or do some kind of silly thing around them.

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